Choices for Life

Choices

In this whole life, we have so many choices. Choice is a decision that we have to take in every chance. It is like giving idea. The difference is in choice we are given ideas, then we can take one or more that is essential for our life. Life is choice, because we can always choose one of many things in this world. No one can limit our choice except God, Who creates the choices for us. Since indirectly, we are the creator of the choices, whether we realize or not.

Live or die

The first choice that we have to choose is about life itself. We are allowed to choose, whether to die or stay alive. It may happen in our beginning of life, before we were born, and it is continuously happen in our next step. We can always ask to ourselves. Which one will we choose, live or die? As a normal human, absolutely we choose to stay alive, but it is not impossible if some people choose to die. However, the choice is in our hand. Just decide!

Happy or sad

The next choice is about our feeling. Many feelings that human can have. The most clear is between happy and sad. The choice also happens along our life, because we often relate our feeling with everything we do. The feeling affect our work. Whatever we do happily can make a better result. We can’t force our feeling, but we can make it. Anyway, it is one of the ways to make our life worth.

Success or fail

At last but not least, we talk about our result and future. Will we success or fail? If we have a principle to begin with the end in mind, so we have to pay attention to these choices. What will we be in the future, whether to be success or fail? For some people the question is rhetoric. Of course everyone wants to be success. But the point is not it. We have to alarm ourselves. We know what we want – to be success. We know the way as well. The important one is we have to know how to be still in that way.

Responsible

In every choice that we take, an action that we always have to take is being responsible. We are charged to be responsible of our decision. We may choose die rather than live, but we must account it. We may prefer to be sad than being happy, but we must warrant that we can make better result by choosing it. That’s parents choose for us.

Every choice create more choices

As realization of the responsible, we do not only stop after make a choice. No, we still choose. After we choose to be success, then we are charged to step on the right way. We are charged to search the way toward the success. After we choose to stay alive, we need to choose what kind of life we will take. Is it bad or good live. If we choose the good one, what the good things for, there will be more choices provided.

Make a good choice

So, it is clear. We have to make a good choice among many choices that are always be there in our life. How to do it? First, we have to know the condition. When the choices come, we know in which role we are. So, if we choose, don’t forget who we are. Second, we have to ask to ourselves. What is the impact of each choice, then choose the one that is give good impact for us. Next, think far about future. May our choice now have long-term impact later, so think seriously about it. At last, don’t ever decide our choice in directly. We have to think. Follow our short thinking is not good, because the effect is not always as short as we think.